Quotes about fidelity

Munia Khan -

Give me a piece of cake from your love-lifeI’ll show you how to lick fidelity’s cream off every layer you mistrust.

Augustine of Hippo - Sermons 1-19

[Y]ou are not ashamed of your sin [in committing adultery] because so many men commit it. Man's wickedness is now such that men are more ashamed of chastity than of lechery. Murderers, thieves, perjurers, false witnesses, plunderers and fraudsters are detested and hated by people generally, but whoever will sleep with his servant girl in brazen lechery is liked and admired for it, and people make light of the damage to his soul. And if any man has the nerve to say that he is chaste and faithful

Munia Khan -

Only loyal love knows the sacred path to a faithful heart

Wendell Berry - The Art of the Commonplace: The Agrarian Essays

A purposeless virtue is a contradiction in terms. Virtue, like harmony, cannot exist alone; a virtue must lead to harmony between one creature and another. To be good for nothing is just that. If a virtue has been thought a virtue long enough, it must be assumed to have practical justification - though the very longevity that proves its practicality may obscure it. That seems to be what happened with the idea of fidelity...Our age could be characterized as a manifold experiment in faithlessness,

Steven L. Peck - A Short Stay in Hell

It took a couple of months before we were both convinced there were no rules about sexual activities in Hell and our spouses were not going to show up out of the blue. It was hard to start a sexual relationship in circumstances of such bizarre uncertainty, especially for an active Mormon and a good Christian, both lost in a Zoroastrian Hell. We were like virgin newlyweds. All my life I’d been raised to believe this kind of thing was wrong. All my life I had lived with a strong sense of morality.

Wendell Berry - The Art of the Commonplace: The Agrarian Essays

What marriage offers - and what fidelity is meant to protect - is the possibility of moments when what we have chosen and what we desire are the same. Such a convergence obviously cannot be continuous. No relationship can continue very long at its highest emotional pitch. But fidelity prepares us for the return of these moments, which give us the highest joy we can know; that of union, communion, atonement (in the root sense of at-one-ment)...To forsake all others does not mean - because it cann

Samantha Irby - We Are Never Meeting In Real Life

It's so weird that adults in committed relationships have a problem with something so innocuous as flirting. I would never expect you to walk around with a paper bag over your head to avoid catching the eye of a stranger, nor would I discourage you making friendly conversation with whomever you might encounter during the day. And if you needed to fuck somebody else, we could talk about it. People change, our desires evolve, and it feels foolish to me to expect what you'll want two, five, or ten

Carlo Collodi -

Today at school I will learn to read at once; then tomorrow I will begin to write, and the day after tomorrow to cipher. Then with my acquirements I will earn a great deal of money, and with the first money I have in my pocket I will immediately buy for my papa a beautiful new cloth coat. But what am I saying? Cloth, indeed! It shall be all made of gold and silver, and it shall have diamond buttons. That poor man really deserves it; for to buy me books and to have me taught he has remained in hi

David Leavitt -

Novels are forged in passion, demand fidelity and commitment, often drive you to boredom or rage, sleep with you at night.

Jeffrey McDaniel -

Even when I'm dead, I'll swim through the Earth,like a mermaid of the soil, just to be next to your bones.

Simone Elkeles - Perfect Chemistry

One of the things that makes me who I am is the loyalty I have to people I hold close to my heart.

Cormac McCarthy - The Road

You have my whole heart. You always did.

Charlotte Brontë - Jane Eyre

Every atom of your flesh is as dear to me as my own: in pain and sickness it would still be dear.

J.K. Rowling - Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows

Snape's patronus was a doe,' said Harry, 'the same as my mother's because he loved her for nearly all of his life, from when they were children.

Seneca - The Conquest of Happiness

Fidelity purchased with money, money can destroy.

William Shakespeare - The Merchant of Venice

Lorenzo: In such a night stood Dido with a willow in her hand upon the wild sea-banks, and waft her love to come again to Carthage Jessica: In such a night Medea gathered the enchanted herbs that did renew old Aeson. Lorenzo: In such a night did Jessica steal from the wealthy Jew, and with an unthrift love did run from Venice, as far as Belmont. Jessica: In such a night did young Lorenzo swear he lov'd her well, stealing her soul with many vows of faith, and ne'er a true one. Lorenzo: In such

Mokokoma Mokhonoana -

Men (who cheat) do not cheat because they are dogs. They are (regarded as) dogs because they cheat.

Dr. J. Otis Yoder - Glory in the Lord

Unfaithfulness to the marriage vow can never be justified.

Dermot Davis - Fatal Eclipse

It started with feelings of jealousy and like a mental virus it spread.

Elizabeth Gilbert - Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage

every healthy marriage is composed of walls and windows. The windows are the aspects of your relationship that are open to the world—that is, the necessary gaps through which you interact with family and friends; the walls are the barriers of trust behind which you guard the most intimatesecrets of your marriage.

Wendell Berry - The Art of the Commonplace: The Agrarian Essays

The forsaking of all others is a keeping of faith, not just with the chosen one, but with the ones forsaken. The marriage vow unites not just a woman and a man with each other; it unites each of them with the community in a vow of sexual responsibility toward all others. The whole community is married, realizes its essential unity, in each of its marriages...Marital fidelity, that is, involves the public or institutional as well as the private aspect of marriage. One is married to marriage as we

Deirdre-Elizabeth Parker - The Fugitive's Doctor

Do we really mean it when we say ‘in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, until death do us part or do we add a silent clause, ‘unless you shame me or disappoint me?’ What is the cost of unconditional love and how capable are we of giving that?

Zsa Zsa Gabor -

Personally, I know nothing about sex, because I have always been married.

Allan Wolf - The Watch That Ends the Night

Thank God (my wife) and I were both born poorso the concept of fidelity was allowed to take root in us.

Marcus Aurelius - Meditations

Never esteem anything as of advantage to you that will make you break your word or lose your self-respect.

William Lane Craig -

To begin with, there is an almost compulsive promiscuity associated with homosexual behavior. 75% of homosexual men have more than 100 sexual partners during their lifetime. More than half of these partners are strangers. Only 8% of homosexual men and 7% of homosexual women ever have relationships lasting more than three years. Nobody knows the reason for this strange, obsessive promiscuity. It may be that homosexuals are trying to satisfy a deep psychological need by sexual encounters, and it j

J. Budziszewski - What We Can't Not Know: A Guide

The goods of fidelity, for example, are plain and concrete to the man who has not strayed, but they are faint, like mathematical abstractions, to the one who is addicted to other men's wives.

Sue Miller - While I Was Gone

I was recalling that other world in which it had thrilled me, in a way, the surprise of thinking that I could be a person who would betray Daniel. Now I wondered if Daniel could surprise himself, could surprise me, by being such a person too. Would he let himself do such a thing? I didn’t think so. And then I wondered: Is it by will, then, that we are who we are? Do we decide, do we make ourselves, after a certain point in life?I tried to call up the moment when I had decided I could be such a p

Ignatius of Loyola -

What seems to me white, I will believe black if the hierarchical Church so defines.

Chris Rock -

Men are as faithful as their options.

Wayne Gerard Trotman - Kaya Abaniah and the Father of the Forest

A steadfast heart does not stray from the path.

Ken Liu - The Paper Menagerie and Other Stories

Time's arrow is the loss of fidelity in compression. A sketch, not a photograph. A memory is a re-creation, precious because it is both more and less than the original.

Kristin Hannah - Distant Shores

It had been years since she question his fidelity, but he'd stepped on to the old fame track again, and that was where the road had taken them before. Infidelity could be forgiven, but forgetting it was impossible. Strangely, that wasn't what bothered her the most. What bothered her was that she didn't really care.

James C. Dobson - Life on the Edge: A Young Adult's Guide to a Meaningful Future

What I am recommending to the unmarried person, therefore, comes straight out of the Word: Stay out of bed unless you there alone! I know that advice is difficult to put into practice today. But I didn't make the rules. I'm just passing them along. God's moral laws are not designed to oppress us or deprive us of pleasure. They are there to protect us from the devastation of sin, including disease, heartache, divorce, and spiritual death. Abstinence before marriage and fidelity afterward is the C

Elizabeth Gilbert - Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage

Then again, you cannot stop the flood of desire as it moves through the world, inappropriate though it may sometimes be. It is the prerogative of all humans to make ludicrous choices, to fall in love with the most unlikely of partners, and to set themselves up for the most predicatable of calamities.

Deirdre-Elizabeth Parker - The Fugitive's Doctor

I am the keeper of my husband’s history. This is a self-appointed role. I plan to learn everything about his life of the past and carry him into a future that is bright with hope. I shall guard his history from rumor and allegation and learn only the truth of his past. I shall then remember the things he cannot allow himself to remember. I shall find out all that I can about my husband’s life and will ensure that the lawyers know the truth. I shall fight the innuendo and crusade for true justice

George Grossmith and Weedon Grossmith -

Charlie dear, it is I who have to be proud of you. And I am very, very proud of you. You have called me pretty; and as long as I am pretty in your eyes, I am happy. You, dear old Charlie, are not handsome, but you are good, which is far more noble.

Gaelen Foley - Devil Takes a Bride

And of course it has nothing to do with the fact that I haven't been with a women since I came to your bed back in February-Devlin.

Antoine François Prévost d'Exiles - Manon Lescaut

The girl arrived; I thought her handsome; and as I doubted not that you would be mortified by my absence, I did most sincerely hope that she would be able to dissipate something of your ennui: for it is the fidelity of the heart alone that I value.

Jack Campbell - Dauntless

There are things we don't do. From this moment forth, let us all ensure our every action reflects well on us and our ancestors. Let us live to the highest standards, lest we win this war only to find ourselves staring in the mirror at the face of our late enemy.

Elizabeth Bowen - The Death of the Heart

One's sentiments -- call them that -- one's fidelities are so instinctive that one hardly knows they exist: only when they are betrayed or, worse still, when one betrays them does one realize their power.

Lori Colombo-Dunham -

If you’re willing to live in a cardboard box on the streets with him, then marry him.

Lori Colombo-Dunham -

I believe it is the woman in the relationship that drives the relationship to what she wants it to be

Charlotte Featherstone - Addicted

I vow I am, and always will be, constant and faithful in my love for you, Anais. Nothing you or anyone else does shall alter these feelings. I am forever loving, forever waiting, forever yearning...forever yours.

Colin Firth -

It does help to actually realize that however stunning the person who is, you know, fluttering eyelashes at you, she doesn't do anything to match up to your wife.

Émile Zola - Une Page d'amour

It was always the same; other people gave up loving before she did. They got spoilt, or else they went away; in any case, they were partly to blame. Why did it happen so? She herself never changed; when she loved anyone, it was for life. She could not understand desertion; it was something so huge, so monstrous that the notion of it made her little heart break.

Qiu Miaojin - Last Words from Montmartre

Loyalty is not a passive, negative guardianship of the gate-- loyalty arises from the complete & utter opening & subsequent blazing forth of one's inner life. It is an active, determined desire that demands total self-awareness & deliberate engagement.