Quotes about gossip

Vera Nazarian - The Perpetual Calendar of Inspiration

Sometimes I think that wisdoms slip from my mind like drool from the lips of an idiot...Where's all this stuff coming from? Is it any good? Any good in, you know, the wisdom sense? Who am I to spout this stuff anyway?Well, here's the thing. You too can find yourself shedding wisdom like cat hair if you only allow yourself the liberty of introspection.Think about what you alone know that no one else does. That one neat wonderful profound insight. It is fully yours. No one else on this planet of a

Criss Jami - Killosophy

Popular culture is a place where pity is called compassion, flattery is called love, propaganda is called knowledge, tension is called peace, gossip is called news, and auto-tune is called singing.

Steve Maraboli - and Being Free

How would your life be different if…You walked away from gossip and verbal defamation? Let today be the day…You speak only the good you know of other people and encourage others to do the same.

Paulo Coelho -

Don't waste your time with explanations: people only hear what they want to hear.

Criss Jami - Killosophy

Deceit for personal gain is one of history's most recurring crimes. Man's first step towards change would be thinking, counter-arguing, re-thinking, twisting, straightening, perfecting, then believing every original idea he intends to make public before making it public. There is always an angle from which an absolute truth may appear askew just as there is always a personal emotion, or a personal agenda, which alienates the ultimate good of mankind.

Ami McKay - The Birth House

No matter what you do, someone always knew you would.

L.M. Montgomery - Chronicles of Avonlea

Gossip, as usual, was one-third right and two-thirds wrong.

Criss Jami - Killosophy

A rumor is a social cancer: it is difficult to contain and it rots the brains of the masses. However, the real danger is that so many people find rumors enjoyable. That part causes the infection. And in such cases when a rumor is only partially made of truth, it is difficult to pinpoint exactly where the information may have gone wrong. It is passed on and on until some brave soul questions its validity; that brave soul refuses to bite the apple and let the apple eat him. Forced to start from sc

Jane Austen - Persuasion

It does not come to me in quite so direct a line as that; it takes a bend or two, but nothing of consequence. The stream is as good as at first; the little rubbish it collects in the turnings is easily moved away.

Susan Wittig Albert - The Tale of Hill Top Farm

The worst thing about talk ... is that there's no way to lay it to rest. Every fresh breeze brings a new speculation.

Gore Vidal - Julian

History is idle gossip about a happening whose truth is lost the instant it has taken place.

Jude Morgan - Indiscretion

You cannot believe everything you hear

Kathleen O'Dell - The Aviary

And though there’s a grain of truth in every rumor, I’ve found that the worst gossip usually starts with something harmless.

Cecily von Ziegesar - You're the One That I Want

You said she's a senior? Babe we're ALL crazy.

Alice Roosevelt Longworth -

If you haven't got anything nice to say about anybody come sit next to me.

Marcus Aurelius - Meditations

How much time he gains who does not look to see what his neighbour says or does or thinks, but only at what he does himself, to make it just and holy.

Anna Godbersen - Splendor

Gossip is just a tool to distract people who have nothing better to do from feeling jealous of those few of us still remaining with noble hearts.

Vivian Amis - The Essentials of Life

All problems, though appearing outside of you, must be resolved within YOU.

Shannon L. Alder -

You will never know the moon or stars, unless you breathe in their solar system and inspect it from many diverse vantage points as possible.

Amaka Imani Nkosazana - Sweet Destiny

Stop entertaining two faced people. You know the ones who have split personalities and untrustworthy habits. Nine times out of ten if they telling you stuff about another person, they're going to tell your business to other people. If they say, "You know I heard........." More than likely it's in their character to share false information. Beware of your box, circle, square! Whatever you want to call it.

Carley Sutherlin -

your gonna meet new people, but be careful most of them are 2 faced. But remember the most important people is God and family aren't 2 faced so look up to the ones that are important in your life.

Michael Bassey Johnson -

An introvert talks more than an extrovert because when the mouth is closed, the mind is opened.

Criss Jami - Healology

Fame is an island, and right before the castaway, the getaway of being known without being known.

Dominic Riccitello -

Someone's therapist knows all about you.

Criss Jami -

Keep your finger on the pulse of society, take controversies with a grain of salt, lick your finger and then lift it to the wind; always know what is going on, my friend, so this world can never steer you wrong again.

Kamand Kojouri -

We reveal most about ourselves when we speak about others.

Shannon L. Alder -

Stupidity is to have amnesia over your own faults when the person you hate makes theirs.

Stefan Bachmann - The Peculiar

He had an image in his mind of a gaggle of long-necked geese, all done up in petticoats and crinolines, sitting around a stuffy parlor and talking about him.

T.F. Hodge - From Within I Rise: Spiritual Triumph Over Death and Conscious Encounters with "The Divine Presence"

Selfish DreamscapesIf you have a dream, as you should, relish in being selfish about building every passionate aspect of it. The crowd of spectators and consumers will still be exactly where you left them... gossiping about everybody else's dream but their own.

Amy Carmichael -

We have one crystal clear reason apart from the blessed happiness of this way of life. It is this: prayer is the core of our day. Take prayer out, and the day would collapse, would be pithless, a straw blown in the wind. But how can you pray--really pray, I mean--with one against who you have a grudge or whom you have been discussing critically with another? Try it. You will find it cannot be done.

Criss Jami - Healology

God wants us to humbly and sincerely ask him things. How often do you enjoy people talking about you without taking the time to get to know you?

Soul Dancer -

Gossip: a weed watered by wayward words.

Melanie Cusick-Jones - Hope's Daughter

Oh! I know what I wanted to tell you – you’ll never guess who Thomas is chasing after now…”Hmmm, never guess or can’t be bothered to guess – it was a hard call. I yawned again, glancing at the bed, which was inviting me to clamber back inside and pull the sheet over my head. So tempting, but not practical.

Zen Cho - Sorcerer to the Crown

What are acquaintance for, if not to supply the pleasures of gossip?

Charles Tritten - Heidi's Children

There, you see," said the carpenter. "And now may I give the little lady a piece of advice? She has learned to use her eyes well. She can tell the babies apart better than anyone else. But she must still learn to tell the truth from gossip. Words are like the nails I use to build my houses. You can either hammer them straight or crooked. It all depends on the sort of house you are trying to build.

Justin David Nevins -

A mistake does not make a shadow. The people who you hurt through the mistake and what they decide to say about it is what leaves a shadow. The only way to erase that shadow is to shed light on it. If that is not possible, moving on to somewhere brighter is always an option.

Ezra Taft Benson -

There is, however, a far more common ailment among us—and that is pride from the bottom looking up. It is manifest in so many ways, such as faultfinding, gossiping, backbiting, and murmuring, living beyond our means, envying, coveting, withholding gratitude and praise that might lift another, and being unforgiving and jealous.

Shannon L. Alder -

When a small group of people come together to relive the Salem witch hunts, God cries. For if anything is sorrowful to God, it is evil done in his name. When you find out you were not given the truth, how will you live with yourself?

Mother Teresa - The Joy in Loving: A Guide to Daily Living

These are the few ways we can practice humility:To speak as little as possible of one's self.To mind one's own business.Not to want to manage other people's affairs.To avoid curiosity.To accept contradictions and correction cheerfully.To pass over the mistakes of others.To accept insults and injuries.To accept being slighted, forgotten and disliked.To be kind and gentle even under provocation.Never to stand on one's dignity.To choose always the hardest.

Anthony Liccione -

A circle of friends, doesn't always keep perfect relationships.

Aniruddha Sastikar -

The wise will hide your follies and help you learn, but the wicked ones will gossip about it with scoundrels.

Victoria Moran - Younger by the Day: 365 Ways to Rejuvenate Your Body and Revitalize Your Spirit

The most reliable topic for small talk is the goings-on of stars whether they’re rising or falling, and whether nor not a particular story is truth or fiction. This is way out of balance. It invades the privacy of men and women who didn’t give up being human when they became famous, and it negates the meaning inherent in our own lives. (300)

Gary Snyder - Poetry and Translations 1952-1998

But if you do know what is taught by plants and weather, you are in on the gossip and can feel truly at home. The sum of a field's forces [become] what we call very loosely the 'spirit of the place.' To know the spirit of a place is to realize that you are a part of a part and that the whole is made or parts, each of which in a whole. You start with the part you are whole in.

Orrin Woodward -

Be discerning with rumors on leaders, for most are birthed by the envy of the idle or the desperation of the defeated.

Geraldine Brooks - The Secret Chord

The stories that grow up around a king are strong vines with a fierce grip.

Shannon L. Alder -

Often those that criticise others reveal what he himself lacks.

Michelle Franklin -

I don't talk ill about people I don't know," said Bartleby. "I only disparage them in silence and hope they die.

Jane Austen -

Every man is surrounded by a neighborhood of voluntary spies.

E.F. Benson - Mapp and Lucia

There is a certain amount which I shan't mention publicly," Elizabeth said. "Things about Lucia which I should never dream of stating openly.""Those are just the ones I should like to hear about most," said Diva. "Just a few little titbits.

Marie Curie -

Be less curious about people and more curious about ideas.

Elizabeth Hunter - The Singer

So you are the scribes that nobody and everybody is talking about,” Konrad said. “I don’t know about that,” Malachi said. “I’m not much for gossip.”“Oh, we eminent politicians don’t call it gossip, Malachi. We call it ‘intelligence.

Criss Jami - Healology

The internet is where some people go to show their true intelligence; others, their hidden stupidity.

Steve Maraboli -

Don't be fooled... If they gossip to you, they'll gossip about you.

Ana Claudia Antunes - Pierrot & Columbine

How can I shut downIf you don't open up??

Dorothy Parker - The Collected Dorothy Parker

Prince or commoner, tenor or bass,Painter or plumber or never-do-well,Do me a favor and shut your face -Poets alone should kiss and tell.

Kay Goodstadt - Love and Death Over Tea

Fidelity is a living, breathing entity. On wobbly footing, it can wander, becoming something different entirely.

Mokokoma Mokhonoana -

Though people sort of need your permission to talk to you, they do not really need one to talk about you.

Mokokoma Mokhonoana -

We call talking about other people’s personal lives ‘gossip’ only if we aren’t or weren’t part of the conversation.

Mokokoma Mokhonoana -

Some people talk about other people’s failures with so much pleasure that you would swear they are talking about their own successes.

Spanish Proverb -

Whoever gossips to you will gossip about you.

Samuel R. Delany - The Jewel-Hinged Jaw: Notes on the Language of Science Fiction

In a very real way, one writes a story to find out what happens in it. Before it is written it sits in the mind like a piece of overheard gossip or a bit of intriguing tattle. The story process is like taking up such a piece of gossip, hunting down the people actually involved, questioning them, finding out what really occurred, and visiting pertinent locations. As with gossip, you can't be too surprised if important things turn up that were left out of the first-heard version entirely; or if po

Magnus Nwagu Amudi -

Underachieving people, use little chitchats had with successful people as gate passes to obtain entrance into places their reputation cannot get them.

Criss Jami - Healology

How easy it is for so many of us today to be undoubtedly full of information yet fully deprived of accurate information.

Donna Goddard - The Love of Devotion

We do not engage in idle or intentional gossip which undermines someone else's integrity or which spreads the seeds of fear by talking unthinkingly about illness, disasters, and all the other fears which run rampant in the world.

Abhijit Naskar - God & Neurons: Memoir of a scientist who found himself by getting lost

All men either consciously or subconsciously crave for authority over their environment, especially over their peers in the society, male and female alike. Women on the other hand, crave for intimacy especially from their female peers in the society. Colloquially this is what you call “gossiping”.

Henry Thomas Buckle -

Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.

Suzy Kassem - Rise Up and Salute the Sun: The Writings of Suzy Kassem

Never judge someone's character based on the words of another. Instead, study the motives behind the words of the person casting the bad judgment.

Margo T. Rose - The Words

All the things that you said when you thought I wasn't there,I just tell them to my corner, 'cause no one else would care.That way, when I'm with you, I can keep a cheerful face,But for the moment, I really just need some space.

Shannon L. Alder -

Often people that criticise your life are usually the same people that don't know the price you paid to get where you are today. True friends see the full picture of your soul.

Alexandre Dumas - The Three Musketeers

There is no friendship that cares about an overheard secret.

Israelmore Ayivor -

Free your life from the fangs of gossips by not associating yourself with them. Anyone who helps you to gossip about someone can also help someone to gossip about you.

Coco J. Ginger -

Bittersweet? No, just bitter, the taste of your tongue.Words you can’t have back, so they linger.

Tiffany King -

All the whispering, glaring, pointing and judging makes them no better than whoever or whatever it is they're gossiping about.

Suzy Kassem - Rise Up and Salute the Sun: The Writings of Suzy Kassem

A lion does not flinch at laughter coming from a hyena.

Suzy Kassem - Rise Up and Salute the Sun: The Writings of Suzy Kassem

A gorilla does not budge from a banana thrown at it by a monkey.

Criss Jami - Electric Personality

The crazy creatives are the creatives who never go completely mad. They aren't so easily disheartened by the seemingly endless amounts of scrutiny that creative individuals tend to receive because they, like insanity, are the ones who feed off of opposition and negative feedback and manage to continue along with a healthy ambition. It is the crazy that teaches us to use our gifts wisely and own all the attackers.

John Patrick Shanley - Doubt

Father Brendan Flynn: "A woman was gossiping with her friend about a man whom they hardly knew - I know none of you have ever done this. That night, she had a dream: a great hand appeared over her and pointed down on her. She was immediately seized with an overwhelming sense of guilt. The next day she went to confession. She got the old parish priest, Father O' Rourke, and she told him the whole thing. 'Is gossiping a sin?' she asked the old man. 'Was that God All Mighty's hand pointing down at

Honoré de Balzac - Père Goriot

It is always assumed by the empty-headed, who chatter about themselves for want of something better, that people who do not discuss their affairs openly must have something to hide.

Jean Lorrain - Monsieur De Phocas

...the presence of others has become even more intolerable to me, their conversation most of all. Oh, how it all annoys and exasperates me: their attitudes, their manners, their whole way of being! The people of my world, all my unhappy peers, have come to irritate, oppress and sadden me with their noisy and empty chatter, their monstrous and boundless vanity, their even more monstrous egotism, their club gossip... the endless repetition of opinions already formed and judgments already made; the

Criss Jami - Healology

To swear day and night by media slander will make one a bigger victim than the slandered. It doesn't take much to begin to fear a mere illusion of human badness.

Amaka Imani Nkosazana -

Beware some people are just talking to you to gain information to use against you. Be careful with what you say around others because it may not be understood the way you expected. There are those who are waiting for the opportunity to spread rumors. And, with only a few words your life has been turned into a soap opera.

Shannon L. Alder -

Satan will always provide a witness to where you have been, in order to challenge your fate.

Criss Jami - Killosophy

You maintain hope for humanity as an infinite skeptic of gossip and slander. In all mankind's desires for entertainment and exaggeration and sensationalism, when it comes to gossip, the individual always sounds worse than he really is. This is why adhering to gossip subtly affects the mental state of the listener - he goes on holding shady opinions regardless of where the realities of their lights and darknesses may stand.

Sinclair Lewis - Kingsblood Royal

The fact that none of these civic worriers had ever heard of such a case was unimportant, because they all had heard of somebody who had heard of it!

Rachel Held Evans -

According to the Talmud, loshon hara kills three people: the one who speaks it, the one who hears it, and the one about whom it is told. 'Kill' may strike the modern reader as a bit hyperbolic, but when you think of all the friendships lost, careers stunted, and opportunities thwarted as a result of gossip among women, violent language seems appropriate. We cause serious collateral damage to the advancement of our sex each time we perpetuate the stereotype that women can't get along.

Criss Jami - Healology

In a society where dirt sells, for every good story told as it is, you will hear the whole of that day's 10 bad stories sensationalized; although in reality, it could be that 100 good deeds happened that day which went unsung.

Shashi Tharoor - Riot

What the hell does this say about India? Appearances are more important than truths. Gossip is more potent than facts. Loyalty is all one way, from the woman to the man. And when society stacks up all the odds against a woman, she’d better not count on the man’s support. She has no way out other than to end her own life. And I’m in love with an Indian. I must be crazy.

John Irving - The Cider House Rules

This mannerism of what he'd seen of society struck Homer Wells quite forcefully; people, even nice people—because, surely, Wally was nice—would say a host of critical things about someone to whom they would then be perfectly pleasant. At. St. Cloud's, criticism was plainer—and harder, if not impossible, to conceal.

Jude Morgan - Indiscretion

It is presumptuous to draw conclusions about a person from what one has heard

Marcel Proust -

The fault I find with our journalism is that it forces us to take an interest in some fresh triviality or other every day, whereas only three or four books in a lifetime give us anything that is of real importance.

C. JoyBell C. -

You'll come to learn that many times, the people you have problems with are not really the people you have problems with; but in actuality, the problems lie in the premises of everybody else in between you, in their suggestive glances, in their implications and tone of voice, in their provocations and less-than-noble intent. Again, it comes down to shutting out the noise that isn't supposed to be there and listening to your inner silence.

Jan Watson - Skip Rock Shallows

Gossip's like jam it don't bear fruit if you don't spread it.

Steve Maraboli -

Gossip and drama are different stages of the same intoxication… the first is the buzz the latter is the hangover.

Miguel de Cervantes Saavedra - Don Quixote

Don't you be worried or annoyed, Sancho, about any comments you hear, or there will never be an end to them. Keep a safe conscience and let people say what they like: trying to still gossips' tongues is like putting up doors in open fields. If the governor leaves office rich they say he's a thief, and if he leaves it poor they say he's a milksop and a fool.

Don Roff -

Any conversation including the mention of Roald Dahl, Ray Bradbury, or Emily Dickinson is one worth getting into or at least eavesdropping.

Mark Leibovich - This Town: Two Parties and a Funeral — plus plenty of valet parking! — in America’s Gilded Capital

Washingtonians love the "So-and-so is spinning in his grave" cliché. Someone is always speculating about how some great dead American would be scandalized over some crime against How It Used to Be. The Founding Fathers are always spinning in their graves over something, as is Ronald Reagan, or FDR. Edward R. Murrow is a perennial grave spinner in the news business (though in fact, Murrow was cremated).

Mercedes Lackey - The Phoenix Unchained

Among the dragons, the prohibition against asking direct questions did not exist, and-as Harrier discovered immediately-dragons were even more outrageous gossips than sailors.

Siobhan Fallon - You Know When the Men Are Gone

I said I don't want to know," Kailani said firmly, her voice suddenly too loud. Cristina sat back into the bench, her eyes wide and disappointed. Then Ana started waving wildly, her small hand arcing for her mother's undivided attention, and, as Kailani watched in silence, the child slipped safely down the slide."Kailani to Cristina

Abhijit Naskar - God & Neurons: Memoir of a scientist who found himself by getting lost

Why do women spend so much time in talking to their female peers? The answer can again be found in the process of biological evolution of the human mind. Just like the evolutionary expression of aggression in men, gossiping is an evolutionary feature of the female psychology. Women trade various secrets from their personal experiences through gossiping in order to create connection and intimacy with their female peers.