Quotes about independence

Charlotte Brontë - Jane Eyre

I am no bird and no net ensnares me: I am a free human being with an independent will.

Mary Wollstonecraft - A Vindication of the Rights of Woman

I do not wish them [women] to have power over men but over themselves.

Joseph Heller - Catch-22

The country was in peril he was jeopardizing his traditional rights of freedom and independence by daring to exercise them.

Criss Jami - Killosophy

An encouraged person will eventually get his drive from encouragement he becomes more dependent. A person that never really receives encouragement learns to move out of spite he becomes more independent.

Bryant McGill - Simple Reminders: Inspiration for Living Your Best Life

The foundation of joyful independence is being content with yourself self-love.

Salman Rushdie -

From birds she learned how to sing from cats she learned a form of dangerous independence.

Germaine Greer - The Female Eunuch

Lovers who are free to go when they are restless always come back lovers who are free to change remain interesting. The bitter animosity and obscenity of divorce is unknown where individuals have not become Siamese twins.

Viet Thanh Nguyen - The Sympathizer

...nothing is more precious than independence and freedom...

A.E. Samaan -

Art was the first casualty of the Socialist and Communist revolutions of the 20th Century. Socialists killed the independent thinkers first.

Connie Willis - Bellwether

Why do only the awful things become fads? I thought. Eye-rolling and Barbie and bread pudding. Why never chocolate cheesecake or thinking for yourself?

Beth Lewis - The Wolf Road

One a' them rules is don't go trusting another man's path...People do it, they do what their mommies and daddies did, they make them same mistakes, they have them same joys and hurts, they just repeating. Trees don't grow exactly where their momma is; ain't no room...I weren't following no one up through life.

Immanuel Kant -

Freedom is alone the unoriginated birthright of man, and belongs to him by force of his humanity; and is independent of the will and co-action of every other…

Mary Wollstonecraft - A Vindication of the Rights of Woman

I love man as my fellow; but his scepter, real, or usurped, extends not to me, unless the reason of an individual demands my homage; and even then the submission is to reason, and not to man.

John Quincy Adams -

America... goes not abroad, in search of monsters to destroy. She is the well-wisher to the freedom and independence of all.

Mary Wollstonecraft - A Vindication of the Rights of Woman

It is vain to expect virtue from women till they are in some degree independent of men.

Elizabeth I - Collected Works

If I follow the inclination of my nature, it is this: beggar-woman and single, far rather than queen and married.

Greta Garbo - Greta and Cecil

There are some who want to get married and others who don't. I have never had an impulse to go to the altar. I am a difficult person to lead.

Coco Chanel -

The most courageous act is still to think for yourself. Aloud.

Ralph Ellison - Invisible Man

When I discover who I am, I’ll be free.

Charlotte Brontë - Jane Eyre

I do not think, sir, you have any right to command me, merely because you are older than I, or because you have seen more of the world than I have; your claim to superiority depends on the use you have made of your time and experience.

Mae West -

I'm single because I was born that way.

Mae West - 548 Best Things Anybody Ever Said

Marriage is a fine institution, but I'm not ready for an institution.

Charlotte Brontë - Jane Eyre

I am not an angel," I asserted; "and I will not be one till I die: I will be myself.

Theodore Roosevelt -

I am an American; free born and free bred, where I acknowledge no man as my superior, except for his own worth, or as my inferior, except for his own demerit.

Bertrand Russell - Why Men Fight

Men fear thought as they fear nothing else on earth -- more than ruin, more even than death. Thought is subversive and revolutionary, destructive and terrible, thought is merciless to privilege, established institutions, and comfortable habits; thought is anarchic and lawless, indifferent to authority, careless of the well-tried wisdom of the ages. Thought looks into the pit of hell and is not afraid ... Thought is great and swift and free, the light of the world, and the chief glory of man.

Emme Rollins - Dear Rockstar

Like a butterfly stuck in a chrysalis, waiting for the perfect moment, I was waiting for the day I could burst forth and fly away and find my home.

Moderata Fonte - The Worth of Women: Wherein Is Clearly Revealed Their Nobility and Their Superiority to Men

It really is something ... that men disapprove even of our doing things that are patently good. Wouldn't it be possible for us just to banish these men from our lives, and escape their carping and jeering once and for all? Couldn't we live without them? Couldn't we earn our living and manage our affairs without help from them? Come on, let's wake up, and claim back our freedom, and the honour and dignity that they have usurped from us for so long. Do you think that if we really put our minds to

Elizabeth I - Collected Works

[I]n the end this shall be for me sufficient, that a marble stone shall declare that a Queen, having reigned such a time, lived and died a virgin.

Christina Queen of Sweden -

Which crime has the female sex committed to be sentenced to the harsh necessity which consists of being locked up all life either as a prisoner or a slave? I call the nuns prisoners and the married women slaves.

Julie Lythcott-Haims - How to Raise an Adult: Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success

But we should open our eyes to the many ways in which hypervigilance keeps them penned in from the more liberated life they deserve to live and that in turn would prepare them for adulthood.

Julie Lythcott-Haims - How to Raise an Adult: Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success

When you intervene on behalf of your child, your child becomes the victim. You're expressing the message 'You're incapable, you're not sturdy enough to resolve this yourself, you need me to come in and take care of this for you.'" You are, in essence, disempowering your child.

Susan B. Anthony -

No man is good enough to govern any woman without her consent.

Craig D. Lounsbrough -

The birthplace of anarchy is the cemetery of freedom.

Martha Hall Kelly - Lilac Girls

I walked home with a lighter step, for that night had knocked something loose in me, something long overdue to be knocked. At long last, I saw that group for what they were, with a few exceptions - a queer assortment of layabouts and late risers, most overdrawn at the bank or at least cutting into principal, only interested in who's going in the drawer at the Maidstone Club or their wedge on the fifteenth hole at Pebble Beach or dressing down the staff about a bit of shell in the lobster while s

Ken Follett - The Pillars of the Earth

He was nineteen years old, homeless and rootless, with no family and no purpose in life.

Richelle E. Goodrich - Slaying Dragons

Ma'am," he said, reaching for the door. He held it open, his posture as erect and sturdy as a pole.I eyed the man's uniform, the pins and badges that signified his military rank and position. At that moment I felt opposing forces wash over me, clashing internally like a cold and warm front meeting in the air.At first I was hit by a burning sense of respect and gratitude. How privileged a person I was to have this soldier unbar the way for me, maintaining a clear path that I might advance unhinde

Ellen J. Barrier -

God Give Us PeaceWithout Peace We Are Without Freedom

Craig D. Lounsbrough -

It is at the precise moment that I take something for granted that I have placed myself in the precarious position of losing that very thing. And if that thing I risk losing is liberty, taking it for granted is foolishness of the most foolish sort.

Craig D. Lounsbrough -

Independence that has declared its ‘independence’ from the sure and certain compass of sound morals is nothing more than rogue greed having scantily dressed itself in the garb of independence while running off the cliff of anarchy.

Robert Black -

I am beautifully on my own. I am free. At the end of the day, we should be our own heroes. Our own savers. Our own heroes.

Samuel R. Young Jr. -

Liberty is a constant battle between government; who would limit it, people; who would concede it, and patriots; who would defend it.

Parul Wadhwa - The Masquerade

Living independent might come as appalling as the word to anyone but me. The one who thinks it's a cool idea and worth it, has sure forgotten that independence comes with a price. If one doesn't still agree, you gotta try staying at a hostel.

Alexis de Tocqueville - Democracy in America

The principle of equality, which makes men independent of each other, gives them a habit and a taste for following, in their private actions, no other guide but their own will. This complete independence, which they constantly enjoy towards their equals and in the intercourse of private life, tends to make them look upon all authority with a jealous eye, and speedily suggests to them the notion and the love of political freedom. Men living at such times have a natural bias to free institutions.

Halldór Laxness -

...freedom is of more account than the height of a roof beam. I ought to know; mine cost me eighteen years' slavery. The man who lives on his own land is an independent man. He is his own master. If I can keep my sheep alive through winter and can pay what has been stipulated from year to year - then I pay what has been stipulated; and I have kept my sheep alive. No, it is freedom that we are all after, Titla. He who pays his way is a king. He who keeps his sheep alive through the winter lives i

Adam Carolla -

My feeling is this whole country is founded on the principle of 'if you are not hurting anyone, and you're not fucking with someone else's shit, and you are paying your taxes, you should be able to just do what you want to do.' It's the freedom and the independence.

Marty Rubin -

What do we free spirits want? We just want to think our own thoughts and feel our own feelings. Why should that be a problem for anyone else?

Sara Baume - A Line Made by Walking

. . . buzzed up by the knowledge that none of my family knew where I was, who I was with nor when I'd be home again. I didn't even know exactly who I was with or when I'd be home again or where home really was anymore.

Marty Rubin -

To know your soul is your own, that's what counts.

Elizabeth I - Collected Works

[F]rom my years of understanding ... I happily chose this kind of life in which I yet live [i.e., unmarried], which I assure you for my own part hath hitherto best contented myself and I trust hath been most acceptable to God. From the which if either ambition of high estate offered to me in marriage by the pleasure and appointment of my prince ... or if the eschewing of the danger of my enemies or the avoiding of the peril of death ... could have drawn or dissuaded me from this kind of life, I

Joseph Sobran -

By today’s standards King George III was a very mild tyrant indeed. He taxed his American colonists at a rate of only pennies per annum. His actual impact on their personal lives was trivial. He had arbitrary power over them in law and in principle but in fact it was seldom exercised. If you compare his rule with that of today’s U.S. Government you have to wonder why we celebrate our independence..

Marty Rubin -

Be independent, and do what you will.

Marty Rubin -

Be independent, ad do what you will.

Jean-Jacques Rousseau - Discourse on the Origin of Inequality

I know that [civilized men] do nothing but boast incessantly of the peace and repose they enjoy in their chains.... But when I see [barbarous man] sacrifice pleasures, repose, wealth, power, and life itself for the preservation of this sole good which is so disdained by those who have lost it; when I see animals born free and despising captivity break their heads against the bars of their prison; when I see multitudes of entirely naked savages scorn European voluptuousness and endure hunger, fir

Donna Goddard - The Love of Devotion

Dancing, at its best, is independence and intimacy in balance.

Sharon Salzberg - Real Love: The Art of Mindful Connection

Our can-do culture has made many of us believe that we should always be self-sufficient. Somewhere along the way, we also got the message that asking for help is a sign of weakness. We often forget that we’re interdependent creatures whose very existence depends on the kindness of others, including—with a bow to Tennessee Williams—strangers.

Stephen Schwartz - Wicked [With CD (Audio)]

I'm through accepting limits''cause someone says they're soSome things I cannot changeBut till I try, I'll never know!Too long I've been afraid ofLosing love I guess I've lostWell, if that's loveIt comes at much too high a cost!

Yanan Melo - Naaalala Niyo Ba Ang Noli Me Tangere?

Our forefathers were heroes. But why were they heroes? Because they fought for democracy. They fought for the life and liberty of the Filipino people. They fought for our independence, our freedom. They fought against tyranny, totalitarianism, and dictatorship. They fought for us and that is something we must be grateful for.

Now and Then -

We all used to try so hard to fit in. We wanted to look exactly alike, do all the same things, practically be the same person, but when we weren't looking that all changed....what the summer actually brought was independence from each other.

Elizabeth I - Collected Works

(Response to King Erik XIV of Sweden's proposal of marriage:)"[W]hile we perceive ... the zeal and love of your mind towards us is not diminished, yet in part we are grieved that we cannot gratify your Serene Highness with the same kind of affection. And that indeed does not happen because we doubt in any way of your love and honour, but, as often we have testified both in words and writing, that we have never yet conceived a feeling of that kind of affection towards anyone.We therefore beg your

Thomas M Smith -

This country has not seen and probably will never know the true level of sacrifice of our veterans. As a civilian I owe an unpayable debt to all our military. Going forward let’s not send our servicemen and women off to war or conflict zones unless it is overwhelmingly justifiable and on moral high ground. The men of WWII were the greatest generation, perhaps Korea the forgotten, Vietnam the trampled, Cold War unsung and Iraqi Freedom and Afghanistan vets underestimated. Every generation has pro

David Wroblewski - The Story of Edgar Sawtelle

We'll know we've got it right when they choose for themselves," he used to say. That doesn't make sense. 'That's what I thought too. I asked him what he meant, but he just shrugged. I don't think he knew himself. But I keep thinking maybe that stray is making exactly the kind of choice he talked about. We're talking about an adult dog, a dog that's been out in the woods for a long time, trying to decide whether or not we can be trusted. Whether this is his place. And it matters to him - he'd rat

Jane Austen - Pride and Prejudice

There is a stubbornness about me that never can bear to be frightened at the will of others. My courage always rises at every attempt to intimidate me.

Charlotte Brontë - Jane Eyre

It is a very strange sensation to inexperience youth to feel itself quite alone the world, cut adrift from every connection, uncertain whether the port to which it is bound can be reached, and prevented by many impediments from returning to that it has quitted. The charm of adventure sweetens that sensation, the glow of pride warms it; but then the throb of fear disturbs it; and fear with me became predominant when half an hour elapsed, and still I was alone.

Rupi Kaur - Milk and Honey

what i miss most is how you loved me. but what i didn't know was how you loved me had so much to do with the person I was. it was a reflection of everything I gave to you. coming back to me. how did I not see that. how. did i sit here soaking in the idea that no one else would love me that way. when it was i that taught you. when it was i that showed you how to fill. the way i needed to be filled. how cruel i was to myself. giving you credit for my warmth simply because you had felt it. thinking

Sunday Adelaja -

Employment will fail you someday

Eknath Easwaran - The End of Sorrow

As long as we lean on anything outside ourselves for support, we are going to be insecure. Most of us try to find support by leaning on all sorts of things - gold, books, learning, sensory stimulation - and if these things are taken away, we fall over. To the extent that we are dependent on these external supports, we grow weaker and more liable to upsets and misfortune.

Thomas Davidson -

Associate with noblest people you can find; read the best books; live with the mighty. But learn to be happy alone. Rely upon your own energies, and so not wait for, or depend on other people.

Sunday Adelaja -

If you don’t leave your job, your job will leave you someday

Elizabeth Hormann - Breastfeeding an Adopted Baby and Relactation

We are bent on weakening bonds in the name of growth and independance,then spend out adulthoods wondering why we have trouble getting close to other people.

Kahlil Gibran - The Prophet

Your children are not your children.They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.They come through you but not from you,And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.You might give them your love but not your thoughts,For they have their own thoughts.

Adele Devine - Colour Coding for Learners with Autism: A Resource Book for Creating Meaning through Colour at Home and School

My aim is to sort the jumble of information we throw at these children and present it in such a way that they will have a greater chance of achieving independence and fulfilment.

Willa Cather -

There was a basic harmony between Antonia and her mistress [Mrs. Harling]. They had strong, independent natures, both of them. They knew what they liked, and were not always trying to imitate other people. They loved children and animals and music, and rough play, and digging in the earth. They liked to prepare rich, hearty food and to see people eat it; to make up soft white beds and to see youngsters asleep in them. They ridiculed conceited people and were quick to help unfortunate ones. Deep

Anna Stevens - Turn Your Dreams And Wants Into Achievable SMART Goals!

We all know many people who come from hard-working families, where they had to grow up with a bare minimum and become self-sufficient and independent at a very young age. We look at them now and see responsible citizens, self-reliant adults, successful members of the business community, outstanding performers, and just happy people. Yes, they’re happy, because they know the meaning of labor, they appreciate the pleasure of leisure, they value relationships with others, and they respect themselve

Leah Remini -

Belief and faith are great, but very few people have been led astray by thinking for themselves.

Criss Jami - Killosophy

It turns out that indecision is a path itself; but figuratively, a vertical path - up or down - meaning it isn't always a fruitless path. One is forgotten, but the other is glorified. To be what they call 'middle-of-the-road' in most cases just means you have a hard time figuring out who between options is dumber. So quite often those who refused to decide were, after all, the bold individuals, the influential ones, the creative ones, those who snatched their own authority.

Nathan McCall - Them

A man don't always have to eat what he's standing life. If he wants, a man can fix a meal of his own choosing.

A.J. Darkholme - Rise of the Morningstar

Just because someone is a keyholder, does not mean they will always help you unlock the door you want to go through – no matter how much you think you deserve to go through it. Sometimes you just have to reach out and take it.

Zeena Schreck -

In order to understand why one chooses to be a Tantric practitioner, there has to be an understanding of cause and effect, cyclic existence, the awareness that the reality that we think we are seeing is not reality as it really truly is. So enlightenment is seeing reality with bare awareness, non-conceptual reality.

Mandy Hale - and a Dash of Sass

Being brave enough to be alone frees you up to invite people into your life because you want them and not because you need them.

Mandy Hale - and a Dash of Sass

Some steps need to be taken alone. It's the only way to really figure out where you need to go and who you need to be.

Mandy Hale - and a Dash of Sass

You don’t need a significant other to lead a significant life.

Mandy Hale - and a Dash of Sass

So many people are so terrified to be alone that they settle for a loveless relationship or stay trapped in a miserable one for months and even years on end. But as it turns out, alone means unique, unequaled, and unexcelled. Or in other words: Unparalleled. Unrepeatable. Unable to be imitated or duplicated. Brave. FABULOUSLY ORIGINAL.

Mandy Hale - and a Dash of Sass

Happily Single is permission to CHOOSE your life rather than having it handed to you, and it’s living life on your own terms instead of those that are expected of you.

Jalaluddin Rumi - The Essential Rumi

Don't be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth.

Laurie R. King - A Monstrous Regiment of Women

I could never, I knew then, lose myself "in love." Margery had accused me of coldness, and she was right, but she was also wrong: For me, for always, the paramount organ of passion was the mind. Unnatural, unbalanced, perhaps, but it was true: Without intellect, there could be no love.

Marci G. Fox - Be Confident for Teens: A Cognitive Therapy Guide to Overcoming Self-Doubt and Creating Unshakabl

If you don’t want to get stuck where you don’t want to be, have the courage to do difficult things.

Louise Hayes - Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life for Teens: A Guide to Living an Extraordinary Life

When people tell you that you can’t live your way, don’t believe them.

Ogwo David Emenike -

The courage of one can change the course of all.

Kristin Cashore -

She didn't know what would happen because of this. But she knew that today, she would hurt no one. She threw back her blankets and though only of today.

Nityananda Das -

To share our independence, to me, is synonym with “maturity”. Maturity means the combination of courage—to do something—and consideration—to stop doing that when it’s required. Kind of like the gas and brake in a vehicle.“To depend on Love isn’t the same as to depend on a single person to feel that connection towards Love. The more Love that flows through any given relationship, the more love that can flow towards other relationships, in contrast, a lack of Love in a relationship calls us to loo

Seja Majeed - The Forgotten Tale of Larsa

Even the Sun gets tired of rising, but he does it out of love for the Earth...

Seja Majeed - The Forgotten Tale of Larsa

Live for what you love, and die for what you're unwilling to live without...

Seja Majeed - The Forgotten Tale of Larsa

We search for happiness across every landscape, if only we knew that the seed in which it first grows, is planted within ourselves...

Cheryl Strayed - Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

I think it's neat you do what you want. Not enough chicks do that, if you ask me--just tell society and their expectations to go fuck themselves. If more women did that, we'd be better off.

Germaine Greer - The Female Eunuch

Those miserable women who blame the men who let them down for their misery and isolation enact every day the initial mistake of sacrificing their personal responsibility for themselves.

Stephanie Tyler - Defiance

I don't like rules, especially the unwritten ones that say I need to let myself be controlled by my man.

Amelia Earhart -

Now and then women should do for themselves what men have already done—occasionally what men have not done—thereby establishing themselves as persons, and perhaps encouraging other women toward greater independence of thought and action.

Charlotte Perkins Gilman - The Yellow Wall-Paper

I really have discovered something at last. Through watching so much at night, when it changes so, I have finally found out. The front pattern does move - and no wonder! The woman behind shakes it! Sometimes I think there are a great many women behind, and sometimes only one, and she crawls around fast, and her crawling shakes it all over. Then in the very ' bright spots she keeps still, and in the very shady spots she just takes hold of the bars and shakes them hard. And she is all the time try

Libbie Hawker - Daughter of Sand and Stone

She will not bow her head to any woman or man, so why, indeed, should she bow to a needle?