Quotes about relationship-advice

For harmonious living value based relationships should be preferred over situation based relationships.

...sex is a commitment. You are gifting another human being with access to the deepest part of yourself you are sharing with them a bit of your soul. You are forging a connection that can never be undone--no matter how much you may want to undo it after the fact.

Boys say they don't mind how you get your hair done. But then they leave you for someone with really great standard girl hair and the next thing you know you're alone with a masculine crop crying into your granola.

Shakespeare had it right all along: Love will kill you in the end.

If they weren’t good for you in 2015, they won’t be great for you in 2016. Let them go.

Sharing pillow talk with the wrong people can make a hard bed to lie on, and will surely lead to nightmares in your relationship.

Hooking up with people who do not care about your happiness or you; is a serious and big decision. If you do decide to hook up, you must have a good reason for it just as you would to have a relationship.

Rejection Is God’s Protection When someone rejects or breaks up with you, it may be a blessing in disguise. The person was not right for you. Or maybe you would have eventually been miserable with them. Now the door is open for someone else much better to come into your life.

Being judgmental is a form of attack keeping others off balance.

Failed expectations ruin marriages and kills love in the process. You and your partner deserve to know what you’re both getting into… and knowing now is better than later. .

Creepy is being attached to an outcome. If you approach someone with the goal of sex, and hten find thins not going in that direction, you may try to steer things back to sex. This is creepy.

Don’t assume your partner knows about everything you expect in a relationship. Let them know. A relationship should be based on communication, not on assumptions.

As a divorced man, I can say from experience that there may come a time when a couple decides it is best to live separate lives: where you have different dreams and are no longer willing to make sacrifices to achieve the other’s goal.

Moving on means getting back on track to align with the opposite of what turned you off.

Relationship math suggests that It is rare for two people to enter marriage and one person is to blame for everything that goes wrong

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Shared beliefs and values form the heart of every successful relationship and ultimately determine its success.

Love comes from the heart, lust comes ...lower

Forget about lien about you behind your back and talking nonsense, some people can lie to you looking in your eyes...

When you are not needed, you are not needed. Period!

You don't have to be a poet to express you feelings to her, just say whats in your mind and she will relate.

When you love someone, show them in words AND deeds. To hear you're loved is nice but to feel loved is incredible.

She turned and bolted out the door. She had learnt an important lesson - "When a man paid 'for' you...you paid 'to' him." It was her first Valentine slaughter.

I've seen you fuck up one major relationship. I'll be damned if I let you ruin this one as well!

Be the man who has the spirit of a ruthless tiger, ravaging every dusty corner of my soul.Be the man for whom I will tame myself voluntarily..Be the man who can make me forget my birth date in moments of utter dellusion.Be the man whose arms are my harbor, whose lips are my shore, and whose name is my only salvation.Be the man who erases my past and draws my future with trails of roses and kisses.Be the man who makes me sigh behind the windows of Poetry, longing to be written. Be the man whose c

When a person in your life continuously displays to you they do not care, there comes a point where you may want to start believing them.

Allow your relationship to progress at its own pace. Enjoy each moment of each date, the courtship, the friendship, and the natural progression to commitment. If it is meant to be, it will happen.

As relationships wane, let the love remain.

Mothering your man is not sexy for you or for him. If you want your man to "start being a man", start being his lover not his mother.

Relationships are where we humans get our greatest education.

In a relationship, no amount of extra effort on your part can make up for a lack of effort on theirs.

I know lonely can be hard, but the longer you stay in the wrong relationship, the longer it will take for the right one to find you. Don't stay in a relationship that doesn't build you up.

If you cannot be yourself in a relationship, you no longer have one.

Having fun is a pretty powerful way to start any serious relationship.

Be the man she can depend on, not the man that constantly lets her down.

The world always said to just be yourself, but it turned out when Evelyn was herself, no guys were at all interested, so she was left with games of make-believe, expressing enthusiasm for whatever the men wanted to do, be it rock climbing or going to a cheese-beer pairing or a Knicks game.

Sometimes we allow pride to keep us running after a man who doesn’t want to be captured.

During the year of 2015 stay grounded. How? Each night before you go to sleep, write a word/expression capturing a positive state of mind on a sheet of paper. Fold the paper in a V and prop it on your nightstand beside your bed so you will see it the first thing in the morning. When you wake up, look at the word, put the word into your mind and feel it/express it throughout the day, no matter what happens to you that day. Examples are: appreciation, look for the positive in others and events; h

Be confident in who you are, regardless of what you don't have. The more confident you are, the more open you become to share your fears and challenges with your partner.

As soon as you see the need to change your partner to save the relationship, it is then time to end it.

Never joke about the job of your friend. He/she feeds their family with it and it affects their dignity!

No matter how rich, powerful or handsome he is, he is still just a man.

Womanly Power: Hurting a man and then making him apologize.

To build a respectful, kind and loving relationship, begin by being respectful, kind and loving to yourself

People use you and what do you do? You use them too.. We all are mean!

Relations are by product of Money(mostly), keep your finances in line and rest all is taken care" This is a fact, which would be rarely accepted by people, but inside everyone knows that...Those who've not yet experienced it would still say, money cannot buy love, respect bla bla bla...

If you can't love me in my rugs, you don't deserve me in my riches

Human beings are very unpredictable in relations and there are no written agreements... Unlike in business transactions...

I also discovered that you can get used to a man , much like you do a household pet!

Let's put it like this; men like Berkley, like me, we don't get a no for an answer, a girl who says no is like a... like a unicorn, and we all want to **** the unicorn!

Time is the most valuable commodity we have to offer the world. Don't be afraid to share.

Love hurts. There is nothing as painful as heartbreak. But in order to learn to love again, you must learn to trust again.

What you post on Facebook represents you, it can make you look bitter or better, forgiving or frustrated, resentful or rejoicing, choose wisely.

Sometimes it's not that you "fell out of love" it's that you finally came to the realization that you were never truly "in love" to begin with.

Good communication is less about saying what you mean, and more about defining what you say.

All of us sport an invisible sign around our necks -- “AS IS.” It means, take me as I am. I may not become what you want me to be. And I’m far, far from perfect. But I have some great qualities, too, as well as my share of faults. You will have to take me “AS IS” and I’ll take you that way, too.

Understanding character is a vital part of the process of finding a relationship partner and developing a strong and vibrant relationship together.

The first six months are what I call the La La Land phase. This is what a lot of romantic novels, songs, and movies are based upon. Enjoy the courtship, nights out, and fun. You will eventually come back to reality.

More than just someone to lay down with, is a spirit to pray up with.

Love is a renewable resource

It takes awhile, but eventually you realize they lost you. You didn’t lose them.

Never depend on a single income. Make Investments to create a second source.” - Warren Buffet

This isn't a spotless life. There is much ahead, my immaculate little peach. And there is no way to say it other than to say it: marriage is indeed this horribly complex thing for which you appear to be ill prepared and about which you seem to be utterly naive. That's okay. A lot of people are. You can learn along the way. A good way to start would be to let fall your notions about "perfect couples." It's really such an impossible thing to either perceive honestly in others or live up to when ot

Conflicting egos destroy many relationships. Lasting, stable marriages are a true treasure because they demand that both parties adjust to the constant cellular flux of their partner as they metaphase through changing seasons of life.

As spouses, we play a big role in the development of each other's self-confidence, self-esteem, and self-worth. An entire personality can be destroyed and a marriage ripped apart over the course of just months. It's important that husbands and wives take this subject seriously and learn to build each other up through the simple concepts of dating. It's critical that the older we get, the younger we feel. As the years pass, our attitudes towards each other and our relationships should become more

The more interest you show in your spouse, the more interest your spouse will show in you.

Forget about trying to "fix" your spouse's flaws. Instead, focus your attention on aspects and characteristics that you enjoy most.

People search the world over looking for someone to love them, when they should be searching for someone to love.

Being married means giving it your all to your spouse daily. Even when you don’t feel like it and even when it hurts. It means looking beyond yourself, and giving to them because they are a part of you.

Contrary to what we read in romance novels or see in Disney movies, the purpose of marriage is not to "complete you" or to "find your other half." If your goal in seeking marriage is to fill a void in yourself, you are only setting yourself up for disappointment.

Once you start laughing, you start healing.

Remember, it is ultimately your mind which makes anything attractive or unattractive. It is you who is the deciding factor.

People can say anything, but a person’s actions show how they truly feel about you. Actions express priority.

Once you realize that your relationship is more important than your individual point of view. That’s where the true definition of “union” lives.

(Regarding Marriage) Both people need to care deeply about the other person, to put the other’s needs before their own, and to make a daily commitment to that person to stick it out.

The greater the pain associated with love, the more likely a person is to be attracted to others who will inflict this pain…for isn’t this what love is? Hurt people tend to hurt other people.

God is magnificent. God is mighty.

Love doesn't come with an on-off switch. It's made of too many threads of memory and hope and heartache that weave themselves into the very core of who you are.

I have never bought into the idea that blood is thicker than water. Love and respect are meant to be earned from our children, our spouses, our families, and our friends.

It's probably not easy for a woman to understand what it's like to be a man. Imagine you're starving, and someone puts a huge buffet in front of you. There's delicious, mouth-watering food all around you, and it's really really hard not to eat it all. That's what it's like to be a man around attractive women. The urge to want to hump everything that moves is part of a man's natural programming. It's a deep-seated hunger. To suppress that hunger takes civilization and a lot of willpower.

You cannot borrow half of who you are from someone else, yet people try to do it all of the time, they just call it a relationship!

A relationship will either make the majority of your life happy or miserable. It is important to take your time and make sure that it is a wise choice before making a commitment.

Women Empowerment Reminder of The Day. Always respect yourself as a woman. You attract what you are, so be very mindful of how you’re representing yourself. If you want respect, you must first learn how to respect yourself, first. Attracting negative attention is never a good thing. Be a woman of substance! Be a woman that both women and men respect, admire, and look up to. Don’t disrespect yourself by lowering your standards and accepting just anything that comes your way. It’s okay to be singl

In relationships, everyone makes mistakes. If you are forgiven for yours, don't take it for granted.

Stop giving the best part of you to those unworthy of that gift.

Some relationships require you have a big appetite. Chances are, at some point, you may have to swallow your pride, eat your words, lick your wounds, and stomach a lot of nonsense. While a little humble pie never hurt anyone you do have control over how much of this menu you get served and can always decide when you've had your fill.

A relationship is the union of two psychological systems.

Truth be told, many couples spend more time planning the wedding and the honeymoon than they do preparing for the marriage.

Relationships are like broken glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than hurt yourself trying to put the pieces back together

One of the greatest ways you can affirm value in another person is by giving them the gift of your undivided attention, the kind of attention that says, “I hear what you are saying because I value who you are.” You don’t have to agree with someone to show them their value as a person. Listening demonstrates that any person you meet is worthy of your respect and attention.

Convince people that you need them, and watch what they do.

So, you want to be in a relationship and you’re tired of being single, right? But let me ask you an important question: Do you have a healthy relationship with yourself? I get it! Everybody wants to be in love and feel loved, but trust me, SELF-LOVE is far more important. How is YOUR mind, YOUR body, YOUR spirit? Listen, it’s okay to be single! You may not want to be single, but sometimes it’s best. Learn to commit to yourself, first. Be good to yourself, take care of yourself, and love yourself

Trying to change someone to suit your desires is a setup for disappointment.

I could tell you, but you should never trust what someone says about themselves. It’s something you need to see for yourself.

Relationships abhor a vacuum. Whenever one person refuses to mark and fight for their territory the other person will occupy the treasured ground either by default or by committing an act of aggression.

The emotional ingredients that sustain long-term relationships are kindness, thoughtfulness, and compassion.

We are in the era of dysfunctional relationships.

I think this is what we all want to hear: that we are not alone in hitting the bottom, and that it is possible to come out of that place courageous, beautiful, and strong.

Marry the person who makes you feel like you can face life together. Because that’s what it’s about. It’s about facing life together.