Quotes about relationships-101
Shannon L. Alder -
When love and duty are one then grace is within your soul.
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Empowered Women 101: Everyone wants to be a princess, but you weren't the first princess in his life. They scrubbed his floors, washed his workout clothes, picked up his dirty socks and dealt with his issues. Always remember that history leaves a pattern of what to expect. A real woman knows that the bible is a motivator, but the real instruction manual is observing the last woman's struggle.
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Sometimes your inability to let go has nothing to do with real love and everything to do with what that person represents in your life. Why do you give them so much importance? Why do you believe that God doesn't love you enough that he would not bring someone else into your life? Why do you put up with less than you deserve?
Shannon L. Alder -
There is no failure in loving someone, only in never letting them know.
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You will know what and who really matters to you the moment you feel you have lost them.
Shannon L. Alder -
Never believe someone cares for you because of other people's reactions. Sometimes you have to drown out the noise from the crowd, in order to figure out if there is a song playing between the two of you or simply annoying static that you thought was a tune.
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If you truly loved someone and they couldn't be in your life you won't hurt them. You will pray for them. You will hope that they find their happiness and place in this world. You will want them to have the best life because love isn't about possession, fear or desperation. When you have a grasp on eternity you don't need to feel time is running out. Time is all you have. Love isn’t a game of musical chairs--grab a partner and sit down. It is a search for the right fit for your soul and life pur
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If you have to make a daily choice to be in a relationship then you are married to the past, not the person.
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God has a plan and guess what? The plan is to stop waiting for him to do everything for you. The person you want in your life is not a sign. Not a clue. Not a wish. Not a prayer. Not a tarot card or a matter of timing. It is work. It is devotion, and like any dream if you want it then God will open doors for you to obtain it. You just have to stop setting the bar so low that everything below is a sign from God and everything above is asking too much.
Shannon L. Alder -
You will know it is love not when you think about them all the time or want to be with them, but when you worry about them and you want their approval and happiness.
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Peace is not about who you can live with, but who you can't live without.
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Expectations are nothing more than the rules we set, in order to maintain our ego and self esteem. What we seek from others is often that fulfillment of what we believe we require for happiness. However, many of us will raise the requirements so high that we can't even reach them or better yet, realize that we could find that expectation met by our own introspection and action.
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Life is a constant battle of fighting your own fears and not absorbing others. Don’t fill the empty spaces of your heart with the fears of others in your life. It is the highly anxious person that will tell you that certain people and experiences need to be labeled and kept either close or at a distance. They go to great lengths to categorize things, in order to feel balance in their life because they are out of balance. Life to them is about control and making you believe that their perfect wor
Abhijit Naskar - Wise Mating: A Treatise on Monogamy
A relationship is not just about sex – it is much more than that. Sex is only a tool in love, not love itself.
Abhijit Naskar - Either Civilized or Phobic: A Treatise on Homosexuality
Good sex is about knowing each other's deepest and kinkiest desires.
Linda Alfiori - The Art of Loving Intelligently:Discover the Five Love Myths Hurting Women in America
It is more likely that a man and a woman develop romantic feelings for each other when they start dating after they have been friends for some time and feel already attracted to each other, than when they are total strangers trying to make it happen.
Stephanie Lahart -
So, you want to be in a relationship and you’re tired of being single, right? But let me ask you an important question: Do you have a healthy relationship with yourself? I get it! Everybody wants to be in love and feel loved, but trust me, SELF-LOVE is far more important. How is YOUR mind, YOUR body, YOUR spirit? Listen, it’s okay to be single! You may not want to be single, but sometimes it’s best. Learn to commit to yourself, first. Be good to yourself, take care of yourself, and love yourself
Carlos Wallace - The Other 99 T.Y.M.E.S: Train Your Mind to Enjoy Serenity
In relationships, everyone makes mistakes. If you are forgiven for yours, don't take it for granted.
Karishma Magvani -
Don't ask too much for space. They grow into voids.
Shannon L. Alder -
Marriage is the beginning of love for your spouse, not the result of it.
Shannon L. Alder -
The only man worth having in your life is one that would never let you walk away.
Shannon L. Alder -
The words, I love you, are empty without clarification. Women prefer to be told what they can expect. It is measurable like a Weight Watcher’s diet, with extra points at the end of the week if you don’t cheat.
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Don’t ever feel bad that someone couldn’t give you all of their heart. Be grateful that you can take the least complicated part of their soul with you, wherever you go. This is more than some people will ever have.
Abhijit Naskar -
First law of pleasurable love-making in the long run, is that you don't keep naked pictures of your partner on your phone.
Abhijit Naskar - Love Sutra: The Neuroscientific Manual of Love
Our primitive ancestors learnt various behavioral characteristics like jealousy, possessiveness and aggression to ensure the survival of their wild love life in the harsh environment of Mother Nature. And all those behavioral responses eventually got engraved in our genetic blueprint. So, these are not the enemies in the path of a healthy relationship, rather when utilized properly they can even kindle the spark in a dying relationship.
Shannon L. Alder -
Empowered Women 101: Confident women know the difference between being a meal ticket and being the meal.
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I waited for the seasons of love to pass from this cold winter to the summer heat I dreamed of.
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Don't talk yourself into falling in love with someone. Either, you are in love or you are not. True love is not a choice. It is something you know in your heart when all guilt, doubt and fear are removed.
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Love is so many things, but it is not safe.
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It is better to be alone then to be in a relationship, while you are trying to figure out what love means to you.
Shannon L. Alder -
When you love yourself you will never need closure from any man. That doesn't mean you didn't love him, it simply means you love yourself enough to realize God has a better plan for you that doesn't involve one more conversation that will remind you of that person's lack of respect for you.
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Some people need significance more than they need another person. Change will only happen in a relationship when you realize it is not the person, but the "emotion" you desire.
Shannon L. Alder -
You can't be tempted, unless you want what is tempting you.
Shannon L. Alder -
You will know you are in love when it doesn't matter if you sit in heaven or hell with that special someone just as long as they can make you laugh, while you put out the fires.
Shannon L. Alder -
Choosing a mate is not a matter of can they do the job, rather will they. A partner of "potential" doesn't make for a happy marriage. Their actions have to be in line with your needs.
Linda Alfiori - The Art of Loving Intelligently:Discover the Five Love Myths Hurting Women in America
Any woman has the power to be truly happy, with or without a man.
Shannon L. Alder -
If you have to be told how you should feel then those feelings are not strong enough to make you feel alive; they become rules that don’t fit your life script. Not every person will place the same importance as you do on one of the six human needs: certainty, variety, significance, connection/love, growth or contributions. When you know what is most important for yourself and learn to recognize what need is the most important to others, then you can begin to unlock the real reason behind conflic
Abhijit Naskar - What is Mind?
At first the brain weighs a potential partner, and if the partner fits our ancestral wish list, we get a spike in the release of sex chemicals that makes us dizzy with a rush of unavoidable infatuation. It's the first step down the primeval path of pair-bonding.
Travis Luedke -
Great sex and awesome food is what conquered the beast, not beauty. The key to happiness is to fuck like a porn star and cook like a five star chef.
Shannon L. Alder -
For, what is the purpose of true love, other than to rescue another from one's self? Why is that not the first thing we look for?
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Timing is only lack of enough emotions.
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Inside of you is your love, not beside you. She is just there to remind you of where you placed her heart.
Shannon L. Alder -
If you are hurting because they hurt then they are the ONE.
Shannon L. Alder -
You can spend the rest of your life fighting to be respected, accepted and understood by the people you have created a life with or you can start living a life where that isn't a daily goal and ambition in your relationship.
Shannon L. Alder -
You have to recognize your inability to love before you can love the way God loves. His version of love is unfamiliar to the natural world It is sacrificial and selfless and the most beautiful love you could experience.
Shannon L. Alder -
Control doesn't validate love it validates the nonexistence of trust and the painful unwillingness to accept the truth.
Shannon L. Alder -
Either, you are in love with someone or you're not. Fear is complicated, not love.
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People meant to be together will always take detours through pain, misunderstanding and pride, but some how they always drift back to the one thing that makes them feel alive.